Civility as a choice

An Anonymous Patron writes sent along A Column that presents a a refreshing idea: Choose civility.
The author, Steve Blow says he can’t get used to is that so many people don’t want to offer a conflicting opinion; they want to inflict a wound. Snide, sarcastic, belittling, profane – you name it. The intent is to sting, not discuss.

He says We do have a choice in how we will live. With strength, we can choose civility.